I'm an Ineffable Dom. That just means, do yourself a favor
and please don't try to describe me or fit me into your categories. Complicated
Dom, Intricate Dom, Confounding Dom work too.
I love very much the soft side of a woman. Not just her
body, but everything on the inside-- her passion, her intelligence, her
convictions, her delicate tenderness. But the one fetish that might be a part
of what makes me an Ineffable Dom is that I love her strengths. I love a woman
that isn't afraid to look me in the eyes and say 'make me'. But I need it to be
real, not staged, not pretended. She has to be a fighter at her core the way
I'm a Dom at my core. I want an equal that is willing to come hard against me
in every sense of the word, exhaust me. I want her so deep inside me that we're
lost in each other. I want her to never doubt that I will always use my power
to adore her, protect her, liberate her. I don't want a woman I can break, or
overpower, or exercise my dominance over, I want a woman I can come undone
with. I want a woman I can jump off the cliff with into that abyss of holy
hell, this is beyond me, beyond my control. The greatest fear of most people is
losing themselves or unravelling their roots. My greatest fear is not finding a
woman I can take that plunge with. Yes, it's a huge risk. That's the yin and
the yang of it. And while the risk titillates my Dom, it's the ineffable fruit
of that risk that moves him. He knows he has to have it. He knows he's supposed
to have. And he's prepared to dominate for it.
I think there are many men like myself, and I hope my
writing will be a map for them. A map for women as well, to let them know Doms
like this exist. I'd like to call them out of the woodwork. Help men join with
their natural inner Doms in a way that I think is one of the most fulfilling
experiences there are. I want to challenge them all to go for the complete
power exchange with a woman, but don't be a coward and not give the same that
they demand or expect. And consider that when you give one hundred percent of
yourself to a person, there is no more of you to give away. You now belong to
them the way they belong to you.
Inner Doms are dogs that need a master to train them. I once
bowed to my Dom's reckless and tireless desires, but when I gained control, he
bowed to my will. The transformation made me into what I am today. What many
would call an Ineffable Dom. But its equal term in the Vanilla world, in my
opinion, is a real man.
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